Grant from Lifesong

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We have great news! Clay and I applied for a grant from Lifesong for Orphans to help underwrite the cost of the adoption… and we got it! That is a huge answer to prayer. It actually felt like such a God thing because I filled out the application on Saturday afternoon and had it ready to mail. Then, on Sunday morning, our pastor, David Platt, was presented with a gift from the congregation. It was a donation to Lifesong for Orphans on his behalf.

Of course, I cried.

I think God definitely placed us at Church of Brook Hills for a reason. They are partnering with Lifesong to help families who want to adopt.

Anyway, this is how the grant works… Lifesong will match any donation made toward our adoption up to $3,000! Currently, we have paid about $16,000 toward the adoption, so we have about $9,000 to $14,000 more to pay.

If you would like to help us bring Shuler home, we would be completely honored! Just click on the button below and you can pay with Paypal or a credit card. However, be sure to type, “Osburne 2227″ in the box that says, “Purpose.” If you don’t type our name, then your donation will just go to the general fund.

Click here to Donate :)
100% of your donation goes to us. Lifesong does not take out any money for administrative costs.

If you would rather send a check, you can.

Please make checks payable to:
Lifesong for Orphans (Write “Osburne 2227″ in the Reference Line)

Mail checks to:
Lifesong for Orphans
PO Box 40
Gridley, IL 61744

Feel free to call or e-mail me if you have questions about all this! All donations are tax-deductible, so if you are looking for a place to do some end-of-the-year giving, Lifesong is a great organization.

God bless!

If you can’t see the “Donate” button, just copy and paste the link below into your browser:

http://www.lifesongfororphans.org/donation.html

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Care Packages to China

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For all who have adopted internationally, you know the wait can seen endless.

We were matched with Shu Xuan (who we are naming Shuler) in May, and we are probably still going to be waiting for three months before traveling. I am praying it will be quicker, but honestly, it could be even longer. So, what is my solution for the long wait?

Pray? Yes.

Cry randomly for no reason? Definitely.

Spend all of Clay’s money on care packages? This is my favorite option.

There are a couple of services, one that I love through www.blessedkids.org, where you can send packages to the orphanage. A precious Chinese woman who now lives in Texas (named Adele) runs Blessed Kids, and her service allows you to choose from toys, cakes, clothes, etc… and she finds someone to hand deliver the package.

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Back to Blogging

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I fell off the blog.

It’s true.

Before adopting Easton, I thought it was so strange when moms would go for weeks and months without posting to their blog. “How busy can they be?” I thought. “Don’t babies sleep about sixteen hours per day? How hard can it be to post a few pictures and thoughts to a blog?”

If you are a Mom, you’re probably laughing right now. I learned pretty quickly that it’t not that simple… particularly now that Easton is mobile.

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Big Adoption Day

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We knew it would a big day. We just didn’t know how big. Clay and I planned to spend April 27th driving to West Palm Beach to finalize Easton’s adoption. Although Easton has been with us for eight months, this was the day it all became official. Of course, in our hearts, he has been part of our family since the day we were matched with him, but on April 27th, a judge would confirm those feelings. So, we loaded …

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Where are You?

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If any of you are wondering where I am… that is a tough question to answer these days. It’s like asking, “What do you do?” to Brandon Rickman or “Where are you from?” to anyone in my family. There is no short answer.

In the most simple terms… I am living in Rome, Georgia for a little while.

What?

Why?

Well, our adoption is ALMOST complete. We just have one more court date where we will sign an official adoption certificate. Until then, I need to be in the state of Georgia with Easton. So, Clay will still be working in Birmingham, but he will have to travel to Rome on the weekends to see sweet Baby Easton…and to see the old ball and chain, aka, me.

But don’t cry for me!

I am staying in the most beautiful house you have ever seen! My mother’s dear friend, Cathy, has offered her furnished house to us for the next few weeks while we are in transition. I feel like I have been exiled to a Bed and Breakfast that most people would pay $500 a night to visit.

Life is rough.

We have a spectacular sunroom, full of plants and comfy chairs where we are spending most of the day. The bathroom is complete with the softest terrycloth robe I’ve ever felt. And let’s not forget the enormous, cushy bed where I am forced to sleep each night.

And the best part is… no TV.

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40 Ways to Increase Blog Traffic

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Last night, I had the privilege of speaking to the Christian Author’s Guild about blogging, and I’ve never seen a more motivated group of writers, speakers, and bloggers. The mission of the CAG is to send out a Christian wave upon a secular sea. If you are a writer in the Atlanta Area, and you are looking for encouragement and information, check them out at their next meeting on Monday night, March 7th. If you are a fellow blogger and you are looking for ways to increase traffic to your blog, here are my notes from the talk.

Feel free to add your own thoughts about increasing traffic to a blog!

40 Ways to Increase Traffic to your Blog

Take Responsibility for driving people to your blog. Imagine your blog as a store in the middle of the woods. This store has no roads, signs, or billboards pointing people to your location. You must build the roads.
Learn five important words: No one cares about you.
Define specific, measurable goals for your blog.
Remove the word, “should” from your vocabulary. People do not want to read something they “should” read. Insert passion, fun, and life into your blog and avoid writing what you think you “should.”
Ask yourself, “Why would someone buy my book if they won’t read my blog for free?” Thank you, Thomas Umstadt for this quote.
Read blogs daily.
Be willing to devote time and energy to learning about good blog posts.
Spend time on great content.
Ask Yourself: “Who would bookmark my blog post?”
10. Ask Yourself: “Who would forward my post?”
Talk about your blog

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What I’ve Learned and Final Freebie Friday

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Since tomorrow is my last day as a vegan, the sentimental reflection has begun. I’m pondering what I’ve learned and praying about how to apply that knowledge once I’ve joined the real world again. This post gives a general wrap-up to my fifty days without meat or animal products.

Great Things about Being Vegan

ENERGY – My energy level is more steady throughout the day.

VARIETY – I am forced to try a variety of vegetables and fruits.

COLOR – My plate looks like a colorful masterpiece.

WEIGHT – I’ve lost four pounds while eating about six meals per day.

CONNECTION- I’ve connected with earth conscious people from around the globe who are willing to sacrifice a lot for a better world.

CONSCIOUSNESS – Knowing exactly where your food comes from is a peaceful feeling.

NUTS AND WHOLE GRAINS – I have discovered the benefit of snacks with a sprinkling of nuts and grains for energy and regularity.

Difficult Things

WITHDRAWAL – During the first week, my body rejected this new diet through fatigue, cravings, and constant runny nose. I thought I had a cold until I read other blogs that reported the same symptoms.

CONSTANT EXPLAINING – A good portion of my day is spent explaining the difference between a vegetarian and a vegan.

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When Good Fruits and Veggies Go Bad

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Meat and milk are loud about announcing when they have gone bad. They don’t just stink up their package, they make a stinch throughout the whole fridge… and kitchen.

But veggies are a little bit quieter. I have to move in closely to see if they are still okay to eat.

Since our refrigerator has been stocked with more fruits and veggies lately, I’ve found myself giving fruits and veggies the old sniff test. Then, I apply the goo test (Is any goo leaking from the bag?) And if I feel brave, I try the bite test.

But I found this reference online and thought I’d share it. It tells approximately how long fruits and vegetables should last when it is refrigerated or frozen.

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Two Kinds of Soup

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Last night, after Easton was in bed, and I was skating around the house in my fuzzy slippers, I finally had time to prepare food for the week. One way to ensure that I eat good veggies instead of fries is to make two or three staples on Monday night.

One staple for me is soup.

The only problem is that I have to make two kinds of soup now – one for me and one for Clay. That is the tough part of being a vegan when your family is not. If you count Easton, I am making three different meals for dinner. That’s not so bad, considering Easton is a baby, but what do Mamas do if they have older children who eat prepared food? That would be a lot of work!

We also have separate snacks.

Clay needs ice cream and Cheese Its, while I’ve been eating little celery sticks with peanut butter. Well, this week, I gave into some temptation. The celery looked brownish and the protein bars were not cutting it. So, I tried to sneak some ice cream, hoping Clay wouldn’t notice.

But he did.

I even tried to make the vanilla ice cream even, the way Clay does it, always keeping his spoon strokes straight, like a neatly mowed lawn. But apparantly I didn’t get them straight enough. When Clay opened the Breyers container he said, “Baby, did you eat some ice cream today?”

I was caught. But I tried to act innocent.

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No Chick Fil-A on Sunday

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Well, this is it. I’ve almost made it to the finish line. Saturday is officially my last day without meat, milk, and cheese, so the big question is…

What will I eat on Sunday?

- Pepperoni pizza with extra cheese?

- Ice cream from Cold Stone Creamery?

- Bar-be-que from Miss Myra’s?

- Or maybe the All-American Meal – the hamburger, fries, and large Coke

The one meal I can’t have, though is from Chick Fil-A. No nuggets, or sweet tea. No waffle fries dipped in creamy Chick Fil-A sauce. No ice dream. You know why. Chick Fil-A is closed on Sunday.

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